10 Things to Never Say to a Miscarriage Survivor

I know, you’re going to read this and say, “People don’t really say these things.” After experiencing two miscarriages, I can tell you that numbers 1, 2, 4, 7, 8 and 10 were said to me. Know how to support someone, sometimes just being there and listening is best. There are also those simple things like bringing over a meal, going for a walk and hanging out with someone can be the best medicine. Whenever something like this happens, people tend to scatter because they don’t want to say the wrong thing and feel uncomfortable dealing with someone’s pain. Everyone grieves in their own way and timetable. Be loving, be present…be a friend. xo, Kristin

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